I’m losing my motivation. This is evident by the same 3lbs that I keep losing and gaining. For the past few weeks, I’ve cycled back and forth between 127lbs and 124lbs. Currently, I’m at 127lbs. You might be thinking, “3lbs – what’s the big deal”, but I can’t seem to mentally get myself past this point. I don’t have the motivation to exercise or stick to a diet. Even when I do exercise, I can’t focus and I’m waiting for my 20minutes to be over.
I was about to delete what I wrote above because it’s so negative, but decided to keep it to examine my choice of words.
“I can’t seem to mentally get myself past this point. I don’t have the motivation to exercise or stick to a diet. Even when I do exercise, I can’t focus…”
Interesting. A book that I read a while ago, Mind Over Body: The Key to Lasting Weight Loss Is All in Your Head,described how your sub-conscious mind will believe whatever messages you say to it and it can’t tell the difference between real or imagined. So, if I keep thinking these negative messages, that’s what my mind will believe. If I replace them with positive ones, eventhough that’s not exactly what I feel right now, then eventually they will become true and that’s what I will feel.
So, let’s try it.
- I’m motivated to lose weight.
- I’m motivated to get rid of my cellulite.
- I’m motivated to exercise to reach my goals.
- I’m motivated to stick to my diet to reach my goals.
Hmmm. I feel more empowered already just writing these down. It must work – so much has been written about it. Let’s see what I can find on the internet…
Whoa, check these out. Just what I was looking for:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14700-self-affirmations/
http://bmindful.com/articles/affirmation-class-questions-and-answers
http://stress.about.com/od/optimismspirituality/a/positiveaffirms.htm
I’m going to cut this post short to work out now. I’m actually motivated to do it for the first time in about 2 weeks. Must be something to it!
Thanks for reading!
12:46 pm on June 9th, 2009 1
What kind of work do you do during the day? I find myself at a desk job – I would so much rather work where I’m moving around more. I can’t imagine how sitting in the same place for too long doesn’t contribute to your problem!
5:04 am on June 11th, 2009 2
Hi Lisa – I have a desk job too, so I don’t move around a whole lot. I guess to make matters worse, I also have about a 40 min commute in the car each way, so that’s a lot of sitting. I take the stairs at work whenever I can. I workout in the morning, so that’s my physical activity for the day. I suspect you’re right, sitting for so long can’t be helpful.